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blanche to give you a good style for your head shape.
If you really want to look sexy (and you re not homophobic), I recommend
going to a gay male hairdresser, since gay guys have an almost supernatural
sense of what looks good to women.
And honestly, if your hairline has receded to the point where it s highly
noticeable, then shave your head. There s a significant percentage of women
who consider a shaved head attractive because baldness radiates masculinity
and vigor. If you re an older man, then having a shaved head will make you look
years younger.
Comb-overs fool no one, and few women consider horseshoe-shaped hair
to be sexually attractive.
Skin
One of the easiest (and free) things you can do to improve your sex
appeal to women is to get a tan.
Obviously you don t want to go overboard with it since there s a risk of skin
cancer, but sunlight is also necessary for you to get the proper dose of vitamin D,
which helps your body produce testosterone. (Also, lack of sunlight has been
linked with depressed moods.) In any event, however, get a nice tan and women
will think you re sexy.
You can kill two birds with one stone by working out outside.
Shaving
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Beards or mustaches are generally out these days, unless you can find a
certain look that goes with your features or if you have some deficiencies you
need to hide. For example, a goatee or beard can work wonders to obscure a
weak chin or acne-scarred cheeks.
Consider shaving your balls and the pubic hair that grows on and around
the base of your penis. If you do that, you ll make your penis seem cleaner and
more appealing to women. They will give you blowjobs more often.
Just as we prefer women to shave their vulvas (since all that hair gets in
the way), women too prefer when we re shaved. An added bonus is that your
penis will appear to be longer without all that hair around it.
Don t get squeamish. Shaving your scrotum is much easier than you
would think. Try it out with shaving cream and a razor. The hair shaves right off
with little trouble.
Shaving your armpits can reduce the amount of bacteria growing under
your arms, which reduces foul odors.
Also, make sure you don t have unsightly nose hair or ear hair sticking out.
Lots of girls find this to be an instant turnoff. You can find an electric nose hair
trimmer at your local discount superstore for less than $20.
Lots of men shave their chests these days, as more women seem to
prefer shaved chests to hairy chests. However, that is an individual choice. If
you don t care one way or the other, I suggest testing to see what reactions you
get when you shave your chest and wear a shirt that exposes it.
If you feel tempted to shave your arms or legs, fight the urge and don t do
it. The bottom line is that the vast majority of men who shave these are either a)
professional bodybuilders or b) gay.
Dressing
For casual, wear shirts that fit, not shirts that look super baggy. This can
be tough, since most clothes you like will not fit. Expect only about 10% of
clothes you try on at the store to be suitable.
I can t emphasize enough the importance of not wearing baggy, tent-like
clothes that are fashionable only in ghetto high schools or among kids. They will
not hide your fat belly.
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The best way to obscure your spare tire is to wear shirts that draw
attention to your chest, such as shirts with a horizontal stripe across your man-
tits.
If you are fat, it goes without saying that you should also be hitting the
gym (weightlifting and cardio) and eating right so that you can slim down.
It also helps with your testosterone levels. Carrying excess body fat
(approximately 20% or more above your ideal body weight) can cause your body
to have elevated levels of the estrogen hormone. (Ever notice how sometimes
really fat guys have bitch tits ? Now you know why.)
Wear clothes that make you look as close as possible to the ideal male
body type, which is tall, with wide shoulders tapering down to a narrow, slender
waist. This is a look that women think is hot!
Avoid clothes that make you look different from this ideal body type. For
example, fat guys should avoid shirts with horizontal stripes around the waist.
If you re tall and thin, try wearing a jacket or unbuttoned long-sleeve shirt
over a tight shirt. Horizontal stripes are good; vertical stripes are bad.
Short guys should avoid horizontal stripes though, since they make them
look too wide. Instead, they should think narrow in their clothing choices: narrow
shirts and narrow pants.
Stay away from anything too common like pinstripes or the ubiquitous polo
shirts that frat boys wear. And no, girls will not think you re being original by
turning up the collar, since too many guys do that already.
Company logos or sports logos on your shirts? That makes it look like
you re trying hard to fit in with the pack. That s good if you want to be a generic
guy instead of a loser, but it s more attractive to girls if you stand above the pack
of guys who are walking billboards.
When dressing casual, you want to give the appearance that you just got
dressed after having hot sex with a woman.
So don t tuck in your shirt unless you re wearing a suit. And leave the top
two buttons unbuttoned.
Avoid cheesy designs or anything that makes it look like you re trying too
hard to look cool.
Consider wearing a suit and tie sometimes, especially when you re in
situations where other guys dress like slobs, like in college.
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Ever notice how women go out of their way to compliment guys wearing
suits and ties? A suit and tie are CEO clothes. They communicate status and
ambition, and there are no downsides to wearing them.
Of course, you should make sure you re alpha on the inside or you ll come
across as a nerd trying hard to make a good impression.
When wearing a suit, have a cotton shirt (plain, not with stripes or
anything), cuff links, a dark jacket and pants, and black leather, shined shoes.
Wear a nice silk tie, which can even be a bold design. Watch the kind of
compliments you get from people. Nothing says authority like a dark suit.
Vintage clothes are in, as long as they re not too flamboyant.
Jeans are also in. Try getting one pair of expensive jeans. Look for slim
fit because you want your legs to look slender. Bagginess conveys femininity
because it gives you curves like the female body ideal.
Matching
I m continually amazed at how many guys I see making the most obvious
mistakes like wearing brown belts with black shoes, so please pay attention to
how the colors of your outfit go together.
You need to match all your clothing. You can do this two ways:
1) Through similar colors.
2) Through colors that contrast significantly.
Colors tend to affect people s mood and energy level, so think about what
you want to convey when you get dressed, and then match up the parts of your
outfit accordingly.
There are two broad categories warmth and coolness. Warm colors
include yellow, orange, and red. Cool colors include purple, blue, and green.
If you want to do similar colors, have shades of one color, such as light
blue jeans and a darker blue shirt.
You can also have colors that are closely related red and purple, for
example, both warm colors that are close to each other on the color wheel.
Also dress in colors that are at opposite ends of the color wheel dark
blue jeans with a light brown shirt for instance.
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